Arts and crafts were a daily thing when my boys were little.
But no longer.
Legos usurped crayons, paint and paper.
Then gaming crept in and crowded out free play.
Sports and school work became a priority.
And one day,
I realized I was the last one standing with paintbrush in hand.
I miss making art with my boys.
I think it’s a crying shame they’ve stepped away from drawing, painting and making.
Maybe it’s just because I’m their mom…
But darn it!
It’s NOT just because I’m their mom.
Those boys have an eye and a knack for the artsy stuff.
I wanted to lure them back.
A half dozen cans of Montana Gold spray paint and assorted sized canvases.
Did it work?
Did it ever!
Let me show you.
I pitched the idea of trying some graffiti art to my 15 year old.
Since he’d finished his homework and wasn’t rushing off to play basketball,
he actually agreed to come out & play with me!
We set up shop in our backyard and started experimenting with the paints.
It was a little messy.
A little smelly.
And a whole lot of fun.
We were immediately engrossed in the process.
As soon as he noticed something interesting was going on in the backyard,
my 12 year old ran out to join us.
My only words of caution to the boys?
“Just don’t get it in your eyes.”
There is something so satisfying out of watching your kid create something.
How mom-ish of me to get all choked up over this afternoon of together time?
Well I am a mom.
And I was completely, overwhelmingly, delightedly happy in this moment.
I sure do love my boys.
You know what the cherry on top of all this was?
We ended up in the backyard again the very next afternoon.
E spray painted a ghostly mickey.
Si reworked his original painting.
Then proudly hung it up in his room.
We’re considering collaborating on one more big piece to hang in our hallway.
How cool is that?